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    What Happened

    by Lois Flowers April 29, 2025
    by Lois Flowers

    Inside: I’ve been away from this space for a few weeks, and this is why. ~

    I had big plans for April.

    Projects to do. Words to write. Weeds to pull. People to see.

    You know how it goes.

    Then on March 25, I ate breakfast and hopped on my bike for my morning ride. The next thing I remember is being in a hospital room a few days later.

    According to eye witnesses that Tuesday morning, I stopped at an intersection, pushed the walk button, waited for the signal to turn green, checked to make sure no cars were coming and started across the road on my bike.

    I never saw the Subaru that ran the red light and hit me in the crosswalk.

    No, my plans for this spring did not include spending 19 days in various hospitals with brain trauma, skull and neck fractures and a broken leg that required emergency surgery.

    That statement seems so blunt and dramatic. But sometimes, I’m learning, you have to say what happened before you can say anything else.

    I’ve missed being here every week. At the same time, the healing process has been far more taxing than I ever imagined it could be.

    The good news is that I am improving. I don’t always think so, but the friends and family members who see me regularly assure me that I am.

    I haven’t done much of anything these last few weeks at home except read books on the couch, receive loving care from Randy, eat meals provided by neighbors and struggle to accomplish tasks that seemed second nature before.

    I don’t know how all this is going to turn out or how long it will take.

    I do have peace, though. I do believe God is with me and has gone before me every step of the way.

    Perhaps more than anything else, I’m incredibly thankful.

    I’m guessing each one of those sentences will become its own blog post at some point. Until then, I’m resting in the words of the old hymn I heard over Easter weekend, and I invite you to join me too.

    “I hear the Savior say, thy strength indeed is small, child of weakness, watch and pray, find in Me thine all in all.”

    ♥ Lois

    I don’t know how all this is going to turn out or how long it will take. I do have peace, though. I do believe God is with me and has gone before me every step of the way. Share on X

    Note: The beautiful yellow flowers in the photo above arrived at my home on April 25, one month after the accident. As my mother-in-law said in the accompanying card, “It could have been so bad, but God is so good.” Amen to that!

    P.S. I’m linking up this week with #tellhisstory, InstaEncouragements, Let’s Have Coffee and Grace & Truth.

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  • When Trouble Brings Growth (for Our Children and for Us)

    by Lois Flowers March 25, 2025
    by Lois Flowers March 25, 2025 12 comments

    Inside: We don’t like to see our kids struggle. But God often uses the hard and hurtful stuff to direct their steps and build their character, no matter how old they are. ~ When children are little, it’s fairly easy to manage much of what they do, see and hear. …

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    by Lois Flowers March 18, 2025
    by Lois Flowers March 18, 2025 18 comments

    Inside: What we think and believe influences how we feel. And when we find ourselves veering off into the whys or the what-ifs, God’s character is a faithful anchor.~ When you are faced with a difficult situation that isn’t going the way you hoped—perhaps due to circumstances out of your …

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  • It’s OK if Our Grief Doesn’t Include Buckets of Tears

    by Lois Flowers March 11, 2025
    by Lois Flowers March 11, 2025 20 comments

    Inside: Some people cry a lot; others don’t. If you’re someone who doesn’t, take comfort in knowing you’re not alone. ~ We all express grief differently. This might be obvious, but I think it’s worth noting. Especially for those of us whose grief doesn’t always involve a lot of tears. …

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  • How Embracing God’s Love and Timing Helps Us Overcome Rejection

    by Lois Flowers March 4, 2025
    by Lois Flowers March 4, 2025 20 comments

    Inside: In this Q&A interview, novelist Jeanne Takenaka talks about listening well, handling rejection and how stories come to life. ~ It doesn’t happen very often, but for me, one of the blessings of blogging is connecting with fellow bloggers in person. This is how I met Jeanne Takenaka. We …

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  • Do We Ever Stop Grieving? A Hopeful Perspective

    by Lois Flowers February 25, 2025
    by Lois Flowers February 25, 2025 16 comments

    Inside: How we talk and think about grief can affect our ability to move through it in a healthy way. Here are a few truths to counteract one unhelpful statement you may have heard. ~ Since my parents died in 2019, I’ve read a lot about grief and grieving relating …

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