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    What to Remember When You’re Anxious about the Road Ahead

    by Lois Flowers March 3, 2026
    by Lois Flowers

    Inside: We don’t need to fear what comes next—even if we think it might be difficult and perhaps even heartbreaking—because God is with us.~

    Years ago, I had a bad dream.

    I was in my childhood home—a turn-of-the-20th-century, three-story farmhouse on three acres. It was Sunday morning and I had to be at church by 9. A storm was brewing.

    Suddenly, the storm escalated. Flood waters rose and the house—which is nowhere near a lake or river—was surrounded by water that climbed almost as high as the first-floor kitchen window.

    I remember thinking, I have to get to church, and then, as the flood waters rose, I can’t go, it’s too dangerous.

    I remember wondering, Will the house stand—is it solid enough to withstand the power of the water?

    I continued sleeping, but that’s where my recollection ended.

    Real Concerns

    When morning came and I actually was getting ready for church, a song came on the radio that mentioned floods. Hearing the words brought my dream back in a rush, along with thoughts of a very real, very current situation that was causing me to feel weighed down, anxious and ill-equipped for the road ahead.

    As I listened, my mind wandered back to another time in my life when I felt much the same way—inadequate, unprepared and unsure of myself.

    During this particular season of parenting, my feelings mostly stemmed from what was going on inside me rather than what was happening with the child involved. There were times when I felt like I was drowning in a desert—simultaneously flooded and completely dried out.

    It was overwhelming, to say the least.

    In Retrospect

    Now I can look back at that season and see how God sustained me and brought me through it. I see what I learned from my girl as she operated in the delightful way God made her. And how my life is better so much better for it.

    It was all for a purpose—I see that now. Not through a glass darkly, as the scriptures say, but clearly.

    This calmed my heart as I pondered my circumstances the morning after my bad dream. So did the theology I still cling to all these years later when circumstances overwhelm my mind and emotions constrict my heart.

    Comforting Theology

    Our sovereign God goes before us, every step of the way. He will never leave us or forsake us. He gently guides us, equips us and builds our faith for whatever lurks on the road in front of us.

    He gives us what we need—wisdom, patience, peace, comfort, love—sometimes even before we think to ask.

    We might be weak, but He is strength personified.

    We may feel as if we are drowning—we may actually be sinking in the waves—but He is always there to pull us to safety.

    We don’t need to fear what lies ahead—even if we have every reason to think it might be difficult and perhaps even heartbreaking—because He is with us.

    Foundational Truths

    These are not clichés, cobbled together with a haunting melody by some guitar-strumming guy on a worship video. They are foundational truths of the Christian faith—truths that stand firm when we are being battered about by wind and waves, floods and fires, disease and daily life.

    They hold up.

    Because of that, we are held up—and carried through to the other side.

    • • •

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    ♥ Lois

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  • We Didn’t Understand Then, but We Do Now

    by Lois Flowers February 24, 2026
    by Lois Flowers February 24, 2026 28 comments

    Inside: How past regrets and hard seasons can help us make a difference in someone else’s life today. ~ A while back, I came across a poignant line in a book I was editing: I wish I’d understood this concept years ago. As I recall, the author was writing about …

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  • When Our Hard Seasons Make Us Better Encouragers

    by Lois Flowers February 10, 2026
    by Lois Flowers February 10, 2026 14 comments

    Inside: God comforts us in our troubles, which prepares us to reach out to other struggling people with the compassion and understanding that they need. ~ When I’m working on an editing project, I keep an eye out for overused words. Repetition sometimes works well for dramatic effect, but it’s …

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  • A Helpful Lesson from the High School Parking Lot

    by Lois Flowers February 3, 2026
    by Lois Flowers February 3, 2026 18 comments

    Inside: We have to drive defensively, but we can’t live defensively. Not if we want to have a sweet influence in a culture where angst and outrage are so prevalent. ~ It’s been nearly a decade since my older daughter started driving, but there are some things a mother does …

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  • It’s OK to Be Specific When You Pray

    by Lois Flowers January 27, 2026
    by Lois Flowers January 27, 2026 10 comments

    Inside: If you think God doesn’t want to hear—or maybe even disapproves of—detailed prayers, this Old Testament example indicates otherwise. ~ I started reading through a new Bible last year. I don’t know if it’s the Holy Spirit’s prompting or the lack of underlines and highlights, but perusing an unmarked …

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  • A Helpful Motto for When You’re Exhausted and Overwhelmed

    by Lois Flowers January 13, 2026
    by Lois Flowers January 13, 2026 17 comments

    Inside: During seasons of acute exhaustion or stress, if others can do work that we’re struggling to do, we might need to step aside and let them. Here’s what that could look like. ~ Years ago, I had an email conversation that made me want to drop everything and take …

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