Share Four Somethings: September 2020

by Lois Flowers

It’s kind of hard for me to believe, but last week, the sixth anniversary of this little online space quietly slipped by.

Honestly, it sometimes feels like I’ve only been at this for one or two years. Reality hits, though, when I notice that one of the “Related” links at the bottom of a post leads me to something I wrote in 2014. Where has the time gone?

More about the blog in a minute as I link up with Heather Gerwing to share something loved, something read, something treasured and something ahead.

• Something Loved

With Molly doing remote school in the basement all day, I’ve struggled a bit with establishing my own back-to-school routine. One point of consistency has been listening to a podcast while I’m fixing my breakfast and cleaning up the kitchen.

I know interview podcasts are the latest and greatest thing, but at this point in my life—during this particular season—they are not my favorite. If I’m going to listen to a podcast, I prefer it to be one person talking, and not for an excessively long time.

Which brings me to my new favorite morning routine—tuning in to Unlocking the Bible with Colin Smith on Spotify. Originally from Scotland (with the accent to prove it), Smith is the pastor of the Orchard Evangelical Free Church in suburban Chicago. His teaching is concise, encouraging and relevant to today’s world.

If you’re interested, check out his series on the Psalms of Ascent (one of my favorite sections from one of my favorite books in the Bible). You can listen to recent sermons on Spotify or Apple Podcasts, and you can find more comprehensive archives on Unlocking the Bible’s website.

• Something read

I haven’t read any books this month that stopped me in my tracks. I did, however, come across an article in one of Tim Challies’ daily A La Carte posts that made so much sense I feel compelled to share it here.

The piece is titled “Covid and Culture Shock Feel the Same to Your Brain—and Here’s Why.” It was published on a blog collective called “A Life Overseas” and written by Peter Olson, an engineer-turned-missionary serving in Ethiopia.

It offers a fascinating look at how our new Covid reality has rendered many of our mental “autopilots” useless, requiring us to “think slowly” more frequently and eventually leaving us with less capacity for self control and emotional control.

Olson takes us through this process step by step and concludes with some helpful encouragement. Here’s a taste:

“When faced with the limits of your mental capacity,” he writes, “it can be helpful to realize you cannot deliberately make a choice about everything—you will run out of capacity. So it can be very powerful to use some of your limited capacity deciding what you will not decide about.”

If you find yourself mentally exhausted these days, read this article—and then go take a 30-minute nap.

• Something treasured

Molly and I recently finished shredding a big box of documents and correspondence from my dad’s vast collection of paperwork. I had already been through everything in the box once, but as we shredded, I pulled out a few more emails to save.

When I looked through these emails later, I happened to notice that printed on the back of one of them was the rough draft of a devotional my mom gave at a progressive dinner our church had back in 2010. (She was 77 at the time.)

I was there that evening, and while I had forgotten most of what she said, I do remember how warmly the ladies from our church received her message about passion and intentional living. Finding her words after all this time was like hearing her talk all over again, and I can’t tell you how happy that made me.

Here are a few paragraphs from her talk, typed exactly as I found it:

“When we’re intense or intentional, we care a lot about someone or something,” my mom wrote. “We’re not indifferent about someone else’s need. And we don’t begrudge having to be involved to help a friend in whatever way we can. We’re focused & we want to give it all we’ve got & want to do it well & we want to do it with concentration.

“Prayer is a typical example of something we can do intentionally,” she continued.  “Bookstores are full of books written on the subject of prayer, seminars held about Prayer, but what we need to do is PRAY … Talk to God. The more we pray, the more we’ll begin to learn that talking to God about our problem is enough, taking our burdens to the Lord & leaving them there. We have to read the Bible to learn how to live & we have the author of the Bible to listen to us when we pray.”

• Something ahead

Several weeks ago, I noticed that reader comments here at Waxing Gibbous were only showing up on cell phones. Laptop or desktop-using readers can leave comments, but they can’t see them—or my responses—once they hit “post comment.”(If this has happened to you, I’m sorry. Please go to www.loisflowers.com on your phone to read all the comments and see my responses.)

My research revealed that the problem is somewhere in the coding for the blog’s theme (all the files and templates that create the particular look and function of a blog), and that it would be costly to fix for various reasons. As frustrating as this is, it has prompted me to embark on a long-overdue blog refresh.

I’m searching for a minimalist theme and narrowing down my choices for a different tagline. The process of actually switching the blog over to a new theme makes me a bit nervous (OK, a lot nervous), but Randy will be handling all the techie stuff, which is definitely helpful.

I’m not sure when all this will be ready to go live, but stay tuned. Hopefully it will be here sooner rather than later.

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Now it’s your turn. Tell us your favorite podcast, a good book (or article) you’ve read lately or even any trouble-shooting advice you might have regarding my broken blog. If you’d rather, feel free to share a highlight from the last month that may or may not fall into one of the Four Somethings’ categories.

Lois

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P.S. I’m linking up this week with #ShareFourSomethings, Purposeful Faith, #TellHisStory, InstaEncouragements, Recharge Wednesday, Let’s Have Coffee and Grace & Truth.

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32 comments

Mary Geisen October 3, 2020 - 5:30 pm

I love hearing more about your life. The podcast on the Psalms sounds interesting. I listen to podcasts as I’m walking many days. I’m excited about your new blog reveal. It’s fun to do but I agree that it is nerve wracking making sure everything works.

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Lois Flowers October 5, 2020 - 9:51 am

Listening to podcasts while walking sounds wonderful, Mary. I wish I could do it while I am running outside, but I need upbeat music to keep me going! And yes, the blog changeover is absolutely going to be nerve wracking, but it’s definitely time for a change. 🙂

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Bethany October 3, 2020 - 8:54 am

You KNOW your first “something” made me smile!! I just listened to “from trying to trusting.” So convicting and comforting. I liked that article about Covid and culture shock too. Excited to see the new blog look!! And your Mom’s wisdom really resonates- especially about talking to God to learn to pray! Happy October, Lois!

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Lois Flowers October 5, 2020 - 9:48 am

Oh yes, Bethany–I DO know. 🙂 The entire series of “From … to …” was so timely and wonderful! Happy October to you, my friend

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Donna October 2, 2020 - 1:57 pm

Lois,
I love this idea of sharing the four things from each month. It is so lovely to slow down and focus on what really happens in our lives instead of rushing through. There are blessings, lessons and trials that mold us and draw us closer to Christ. Thank you for sharing!

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Lois Flowers October 5, 2020 - 9:47 am

Thanks for reading, Donna! I agree … sharing these four things has quickly become a favorite blogging feature for me too. 🙂

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Maryleigh October 1, 2020 - 8:15 am

What a month of great insight! Your comments on Covid “brain” made me think about ADHD – and how those with ADHD function better in a slower world. I also love what your mom said – about being intentional and praying – what a special keepsake! Looking forward to checking out the podcast you recommend! Praying God’s Shalom fills your week! ~ Maryleigh

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Lois Flowers October 1, 2020 - 8:11 pm

I hope you enjoy the podcast, Maryleigh. I’m encouraged or challenged every time I listen. So good to hear from you this week!

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Susan Shipe September 30, 2020 - 8:34 am

September came and September went
What did we do how was our time spent?
Now the air is cooler and the sky is bluer
Redeem the time – there is nothing truer!

Selah. Aren’t you glad I don’t call myself a poet!!!

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Lois Flowers October 1, 2020 - 8:03 pm

Haha … that’s great, Susan! Happy October to you, my friend.

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Karen Friday September 30, 2020 - 7:04 am

Enjoyed this, Lois. Such a beautiful devotional by your mom.

This month I read, “Double Blessing: How to get it. How to give it,” by Mark Batterson. It’s amazing as Mark takes the reader from Genesis to Revelation establishing the thread of God’s blessing.

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Lois Flowers October 1, 2020 - 8:02 pm

That sounds like a wonderful book, Karen. 🙂

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Jennifer Smith September 29, 2020 - 6:19 pm

Good luck with your blog refresh. Updating/refreshing is so intimidating for me. I don’t even like it when my phone updates! What a treasure you have in those notes from your mom’s devotion. I have a few tidbits in my mom’s handwriting and just those few things are so sweet to my heart:)

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Lois Flowers October 1, 2020 - 8:02 pm

I totally agree, Jennifer. I have quite a bit of my dad’s writing but not much of my mom’s, so it was a wonderful find!

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Wemi Omotosho September 29, 2020 - 4:26 pm

Happy blog anniversary! So happy for you that you found some of your mum’s writing. Good luck with the theme change – coding and all things related to it make me very nervous as well!

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Lois Flowers October 1, 2020 - 8:00 pm

Thanks so much, Wemi! I hope October is off to a good start for you. 🙂

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Heather Gerwing September 29, 2020 - 2:13 pm

Happy Blogiversary! So glad you are participating in Share Four Somethings!

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Lois Flowers October 1, 2020 - 7:55 pm

Me too, Heather. 🙂

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Barbara Harper September 29, 2020 - 12:32 pm

Happy blog anniversary! I’ve enjoyed some blog posts by Colin Smith and wondered about getting a book of his, but haven’t heard the podcast. So far I only listen to one podcast occasionally–I usually have the radio or music or an audiobook on if I want to listen to something. There are so many good ones out there, though. I like when they have a transcript of the podcast–I’d usually rather scan through it that listen.

How neat to find the notes from your mom’s talk!

I had wondered about not being able to see the comments, but I hadn’t asked about it–at least I don’t remember doing so. 🙂 Technology can be so weird with its glitches. I hope the switch to a new theme goes smoothly for you.

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Lois Flowers October 1, 2020 - 7:55 pm

I’m with you, Barbara … I often prefer to read a transcript than listen to a podcast. And yes please to music too. Thanks for your encouragement about switching themes … I hope it goes smoothly too. 🙂

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Lesley September 29, 2020 - 12:15 pm

Happy 6th blogging anniversary! I agree, the time goes so quickly – you’re about a year ahead of me and I can’t believe it’s been 5 years!
I loved your update – what a beautiful gift to find your mom’s devotional, and I will check out the covid culture shock article. I feel like I’ve had permanent brain fog for the last six months.
I hope you get your blog issue sorted out too. I had noticed that and I thought it was just me!

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Lois Flowers October 1, 2020 - 7:49 pm

“Permanent brain fog” … that describes it well, Lesley. No, the comment thing wasn’t just you … the joys of technology, right? Hugs, friend.

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Laurie September 29, 2020 - 10:21 am

Happy blogiversary, Lois! I do typically read your blog on my laptop, so I was affected by the glitch. I will have to use my phone from now on.
I see now that you get your good writing skills from your mom! What a powerful statement – “what we need to do is PRAY!”

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Lois Flowers October 1, 2020 - 7:48 pm

That bit from my mom’s talk struck a deep chord with me too, Laurie. I’m sorry about the glitch … hopefully a new theme will take care of it.

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Lauren Renee Sparks September 29, 2020 - 9:33 am

Thank you for sharing. I hope your blog stuff is sorted out quickly!

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Lois Flowers October 1, 2020 - 7:46 pm

Me to, Lauren!

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Rebecca Hastings September 29, 2020 - 8:26 am

Congrats on 6 years! What an amazing gift to celebrate how God has used this space in your life and in the lives of others!

I’m with you for the figuring out new routines and distance learning! It’s challenging. Not bad, but challenging.

And YES on the podcasts. I want to embrace them the way other people do, but I need quiet in my life. There are a few I like when I’m in the right mood. And I listen to The Bible Recap daily.

Congrats again friend!

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Lois Flowers October 1, 2020 - 7:45 pm

Good to hear from you, Rebecca! Thanks for your kind words about my blog anniversary. And I’m glad t know I’m not the only way who feels this way about podcasts. 🙂 Hugs, friend.

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Lisa notes September 29, 2020 - 7:08 am

Blog years go by quickly, yes? I almost always miss my anniversary date. I need to mark it big on my calendar for next year. 🙂 I need to do a complete blog refresh as well, but the thought of it is overwhelming for now. ha.

I’ll have to check out Peter Olson’s article; I’ve definitely been mentally exhausted the past 6 months. I love these 4-things posts, Lois!

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Lois Flowers October 1, 2020 - 7:42 pm

Thanks, Lisa. I have a feeling the article will resonate with you. I hope October is off to a good—and more restful—start for you.

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Michele Morin September 29, 2020 - 6:49 am

I also find podcasts helpful in anchoring a routine. One of my favorites is Help Me Teach the Bible with Nancy Guthrie.
And I am working on a new tagline as well. Isn’t it just brutal trying to figure out how to describe what you’ve been trying to do??

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Lois Flowers October 1, 2020 - 7:37 pm

So true, Michele. I’ve narrowed it down to two tag lines and just can’t decide! I appreciate Nancy Guthrie’s tone and insights, so I think I would enjoy that podcast too.

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