What I Learned This Winter

by Lois Flowers

If you’ve been tracking with me for a while, you may have noticed that my writing has taken on a bit of a heavier tone lately. That’s not part of some new blogging strategy; it’s just life spilling out onto the “pages” of this blog.

I go back and forth about whether or not this is a good thing, but I always come back to the belief that I’m not the only one—and that others in the midst of difficult seasons might find a bit of encouragement in knowing that they are not the only one.

That said, I’ve been looking forward to sharing some lighter fare as I join with Emily Freeman and others in recounting what I’ve learned this winter. Such as:

• Candles in the fireplace are my new favorite coziness enhancer. We can’t use our gas fireplace because the flue is cracked and we don’t want to spend the thousands of dollars needed to repair it. With candles—three wicks in a single jar or an odd assortment of pillars—we can still enjoy the ambiance of flickering flames in our living room. They don’t put out much heat, but they do make everything feel cozier on a snowy winter day.

• I don’t need to fill out an online quiz to determine whether I have too much on my mind. My daily life pretty much lets me know. Like when I set the timer on the microwave and forget to push “start.” Or when I type a text and fail to hit “send.” Or when I frantically search around my kitchen trying to find the egg I got out for breakfast, only to look down and discover it was in my hand the whole time.

• It is possible to keep bananas from ripening too fast. I don’t spend much time looking up housekeeping hacks, but this one—from a video Ann Voskamp shared in her weekly collection of “Good Stuff”—really works. All you have to do is take a bunch of greenish bananas, wrap one of those bags from the produce department around the stems a few times and put it back on your kitchen counter. The bananas still ripen, but much more slowly than they would without the bag.

• Some of the best quotes come from novels. Like this one, from Kate Morton’s latest book, The Clockmaker’s Daughter:

“Parents and children. The simplest relationship in the world and yet the most complex. One generation passes to the next a suitcase filled with jumbled jigsaw pieces from countless puzzles collected over time and says, ‘See what you can make out of these.’ ”

I don’t know about you, but I’ve been spending a lot of time at the family puzzle table lately. And I know one thing for sure. It’s tough to place the pieces in the right positions when you don’t know what the end result is supposed to look like.

• You can polish brass with ketchup and salt. I never would have known this were it not for my Pinterest-loving daughter, who recently spent two hours sprucing up a very dingy kettle that used to sit atop one of my kitchen cabinets. If you want to try it out yourself, just spread ketchup on the brass you want to clean, sprinkle it with salt, wait for a few minutes and then scrub it off with a microfiber towel. (Of course, you might want to test it on a small area before you slather ketchup everywhere, just to be on the safe side.)

• Music evokes emotion in me at random times and in random places. Like when I’m at a district honor choir concert and a massive group of talented teenagers starts singing about angels coming after me all night and all day. (I really need to start keeping tissues in my purse.)

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That’s it for me, at least for now. So what have you learned this winter? Please share in the comments, along with any favorite quotes or helpful housekeeping hacks that you can’t bear to keep to yourself any longer.

Lois

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P.S. I’m linking up this week with Purposeful Faith#TellHisStoryLet’s Have Coffee, Emily Freeman, Faith on Fire, Faith ‘n Friends and Grace & Truth.

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24 comments

Lisa notes March 4, 2019 - 12:42 pm

I’m going to try the banana trick too. Nothing to lose! 🙂 I’m glad you keep it real here, Lois. Life is such a mixture of heavy stuff and light stuff.

I bought candles years ago to put in my fireplace but they never made it there. ha. Love that look though!

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Lois Flowers March 7, 2019 - 8:08 am

That’s funny about the candles, Lisa. I’ve got decor items in my house that have sat in a box or storage room for years too, just waiting for me to do something with them. Maybe it’s time to get rid of some stuff! Good luck with the bananas … 🙂

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Mary Geisen March 3, 2019 - 7:23 pm

I love the tip about bananas. I will be trying that soon. It’s always refreshing to take a look back to see how far we have come. Thank you for taking us down that road with you.

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Lois Flowers March 4, 2019 - 9:06 am

You’ll have to let me know how the banana hack works for you, Mary. It’s been the most commented-upon tidbit from my post this week! 🙂

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sandraj March 2, 2019 - 2:37 pm

Lois – I loved your list and I loved your candles in the fireplace. Sweet! May God bless you in the challenges you’re facing!

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Lois Flowers March 4, 2019 - 9:05 am

Thanks, Sandra. Good to hear from you this past week!

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Shannan March 2, 2019 - 12:02 pm

So, I tried the banana hack. Wow! Thanks for that sooooooo much.

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Lois Flowers March 4, 2019 - 9:04 am

You’re welcome, Shannan … it’s awesome, isn’t it? 🙂

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Joanne Viola March 1, 2019 - 9:31 am

So glad you shared about the bananas! And all the month brought to your life. It’s amazing the things we can learn in the middle of hard times. Blessings!

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Lois Flowers March 4, 2019 - 8:59 am

So true, Joanne. Those lessons are one thing that keeps me going through all of this … there’s always a purpose, isn’t there?

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Aimee February 28, 2019 - 7:56 pm

I love these insights.

Your fireplace with the candles looks so cozy & inviting.

I saw the banana tip on the little video screen attached to my gas pump the other day and was delighted to discover it actually works!

And I really love the Kate Morton quote you shared.

What a great list!

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Lois Flowers March 4, 2019 - 8:58 am

I’m so glad you stopped by last week, Aimee. It’s good to know those gas pump videos are playing useful information and not just more advertisements. 🙂 Thank you for your kind words!

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Bethany February 28, 2019 - 11:41 am

Love these! Especially good to know about the bananas- I’ll spread that one around! One of my favorite hacks is freezer rice. It microwaves beautifully, and saves me a dirty pot and 20+ minutes every time I want rice.

Your fireplace looks cozy and your words feel like a little visit on a winters day! Thanks for sharing Lois!

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Lois Flowers March 4, 2019 - 8:55 am

Aw, Bethany … I wish you could come by for an actual visit, though at this point I’d rather it be on a nice spring day! 🙂 You’ve got my attention with the freezer rice … what exactly is that?

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Lesley February 26, 2019 - 3:55 pm

I will have to try that banana tip – it’s a new one to me! I really enjoyed The Clockmaker’s Daughter and I love the quote you picked out!

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Lois Flowers March 4, 2019 - 8:52 am

Hi Lesley … so fun to hear that you read “The Clockmaker’s Daughter” too. I really enjoyed the book too, although the part about Julia (can’t remember if that’s her name) going back to the house 20 years later to meet Leonard (I think) really stumped me. Did you notice/understand what was going on with that? 🙂

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Trudy February 26, 2019 - 12:47 pm

Thank you for all these tips, Lois. I, too, must have missed that banana trick on Ann’s post, so I’ll have to try it. And who would have thought of ketchup and salt on brass? Bravo to your daughter who put in all that work. It must have really given her a sense of accomplishment. It’s beautiful! I assume it will be back on top of one of your cabinets? 🙂 Love and blessings to you!

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Lois Flowers March 4, 2019 - 8:50 am

Yes, Trudy … the kettle is back on top of the refrigerator now. I’m glad Molly decided to clean it because I was just going to put it in the donation pile! Hugs, friend!

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Laurie February 26, 2019 - 10:36 am

Praying for you, Lois. I searched out this quote from Mari Andrew to share with you: “Seasons of loss, like the colder seasons, are the hardest ones to endure, even if you logically understand they won’t last forever.”

On a lighter note, thanks for the tip about polishing brass! I never knew ketchup and salt would work!

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Lois Flowers March 4, 2019 - 8:48 am

Aw, Laurie … thank you so much for sharing that quote. I’ve always been more of a thinker than a feeler, so this season of watching my parents decline has stretched me quite a bit emotionally. The growth is good, but it’s also hard! Blessings, friend.

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Linda Stoll February 26, 2019 - 9:49 am

oh, my mother’s going to rise and call you blessed when I tell her about the bananas!

meanwhile, please feel free to share your end-of-the-month link over at my place this week. i’m trying to give readers another venue to meet each other!

http://www.lindastoll.net/2019/02/a-mid-winter-photo-album-loose-ends.html

;-}

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Lois Flowers March 4, 2019 - 8:41 am

What did your mom think about the banana hack, Linda? My only problem with it is remembering to save my bags from the produce department! Thanks again for the invitation to link up at your place last week … you are so good at fostering community. 🙂

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Michele Morin February 26, 2019 - 8:39 am

I know my mind has reached saturation when I start misplacing things. Keys, important papers . . . watch out!
And I can’t figure out how I missed that banana hack because I also read Ann’s weekend thing. So glad you shared it.

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Lois Flowers March 4, 2019 - 8:39 am

Michele, the banana hack was part of a longer video with several other tips. I normally don’t watch those but this time I’m glad I did because it really works!

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