What to Remember When Life Throws You Off Track

by Lois Flowers

Inside: When seasons change suddenly or life throws you for an unexpected loop, remember these quick lessons from the running trail. ~

This little message, written on the trail to encourage marathon runners a few years ago, also spurred me on every time I passed it on my morning jogs.

Every time I sit down to write a blog post that has anything to do with running, I almost have to laugh.

I’ve never been what I’d call a runner. Partly due to a bad foot and partly due to not being very athletic.

One of my most distinct memories of college is having to jog a mile around an indoor track for a wellness class assignment. I was the last one done, and I thought I was going to pass out before I finished. It was horrible.

Fast Forward

In my mid-30s, I got custom orthotics and began jogging on a treadmill. Not always consistently, mind you, but eventually I found a good rhythm and started to see tangible evidence of the benefits of exercise.

I like to read on the treadmill, so I always resisted whenever anyone suggested I run outside. Then about three years ago, near the beginning of the pandemic shutdown, my daughter Lilly finally convinced me to let go of the arms of my trusty treadmill and join her on the trail by our house.

How Could I Not?

She was senior in high school, with limited time left at home. I wanted to take advantage of every moment with her, even if it meant engaging in the one activity I had always avoided.

Lilly is a patient coach. Over time, I gradually stopped feeling like I was going to die with every stride.

I kept running when she went off to college.  Little by little, I added yards until I met my distance goal.

Ups and Downs

Until I got sick with Covid in February, I was running about 2.3 miles at a time. That might not sound like much to a serious runner, but it’s much farther than I had ever dreamed of running regularly.

Still, I’ve had my ups and downs. The hotter it gets, the more I struggle on the trail. Even when the weather cooled off last fall, it took me a long time to see proof of the running mantra that summer pain equals winter gains.

Over time, I started to wonder if I was in a rut. I thought about trying to run faster or farther.

Getting Back on Track

I decided to keep going as I was, and then I got sick. Everything I’ve read about post-Covid exercise suggests that you can’t just jump back into your pre-illness routine. It takes time to get your strength back and build up your endurance, even after mild to moderate sickness.

I began by walking on the trail and the treadmill, pushing myself a little bit more every day. Once again, it’s obvious how much better I feel—mentally and physically—when my day includes some kind of exercise, even when it’s less than it was before.

The Long Haul

My point in telling you all of this is not to convince you to take up running (or any other kind of exercise, for that matter). Rather, it’s to remind us both that life is marathon, not a sprint.

The scriptures tell us to run with endurance the race set before us. This includes hills and valleys, ups and downs, highs and lows.

Along the way, we experience seasons of sickness and wellness, joy and grief, uncertainty and clarity. We often have no warning before the season changes, which can add another layer of difficulty to what we are facing.

This is life, and even though it should not surprise us, it often does.

4 Quick Encouragements

That said, wherever you find yourself on your own personal race course, perhaps you will be encouraged by a few quick thoughts that have helped me lately.

• Some seasons are just harder.

• Opportunities to compare are abundant; reject them.

• There’s a very good chance you’re stronger than you think you are.

• Growth measured in miniscule increments is still growth.

Onward and upward, friends!

Lois

The scriptures tell us to run with endurance the race set before us. This includes hills and valleys, ups and downs, highs and lows. Click To Tweet Growth measured in miniscule increments is still growth. Click To Tweet

P.S. I’m linking up this week with #tellhisstory, InstaEncouragements, Recharge Wednesday, Let’s Have Coffee and Grace & Truth.

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20 comments

Maree Dee April 3, 2023 - 9:40 am

Lois, Thank you for the encouragement. Being down and out with back problems and being unable to ski has discouraged me. Yet, I have made some progress over the last few days. Hanging on your words, “Growth measured in minuscule increments is still growth.”

Featuring your post on my—Grace & Truth Link up | Featured Posts Pinterest Board. https://www.pinterest.com/embracingtheune/grace-truth-christian-link-up-featured-posts/

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Lois Flowers April 3, 2023 - 10:55 am

Oh, Maree … I understand your discouragement and I’m glad you’ve made some progress these last few days. I hope that continues! Thanks for sharing my post on your Pinterest board. 🙂

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Bethany McIlrath April 2, 2023 - 7:57 pm

I appreciated these quick encouragements! Hope you continue to feel better and make it just a bit further on the trail!

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Lois Flowers April 3, 2023 - 10:54 am

Thanks, Bethany. I hope you’re doing well, friend. 🙂

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Lesley April 2, 2023 - 3:32 pm

I’m glad you’re regaining your strength and getting back into running, Lois, and I appreciate the encouragements you share.

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Lois Flowers April 3, 2023 - 10:53 am

Thanks for your kind words, Lesley. An early happy Easter to you, friend!

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Lisa notes March 29, 2023 - 6:25 pm

Interesting to read this because I was just fitted with custom orthotics last week! I don’t think it’ll propel me back into a habit of running (all my joints would need custom orthotics for that, lol), but I hope it will make a difference in the pain level when I walk. I appreciate your lesson here to remember life is a marathon, not a sprint. It’s good encouragement for me!

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Lois Flowers April 1, 2023 - 10:37 am

I’m still smiling about all your joints needing custom orthotics, Lisa. Joint replacements definitely run in my family, so I sometimes wonder what form of exercise I might take up after my knees decide they’ve had enough running. I got custom orthotics in my mid-30s. They made a HUGE difference for me … I hope for the same result for you.

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Donna March 29, 2023 - 4:31 pm

So glad you are slowly making your comeback from COVID, Lois! I love your object lesson here, so many things in life can result in our getting off track, but it’s not so much the getting off track that matters, but the getting back on track that does.

Slow and steady wins the race, life and the Christian journey are not sprints, but marathons which involve steadfastness!

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Lois Flowers April 1, 2023 - 10:35 am

Oh Donna … beginning the process of “getting back on track” often seems so daunting, doesn’t it? And yet, taking that first step leads to the next, and the next, and before we know it, we’re up and running again. Maybe slower than before, but you’re right … “slow and steady wins the race.” Love to you, dear friend!

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Joanne Viola March 29, 2023 - 9:25 am

Lois, I so appreciated your thoughts and encouragement > “Life is marathon, not a sprint.” May we just keep on pressing on, day by day, step by step, holding onto Jesus all the way!

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Lois Flowers April 1, 2023 - 10:33 am

Amen, Joanne! 🙂

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Barbara Harper March 29, 2023 - 8:28 am

I’ve never been a runner, either. In my first college PE course, we had to take a fitness test. I failed, which meant I had to take a general fitness class for my next PE semester–which involved a lot of running.

Now I can’t run due to a neurological illness a few years ago. I used to walk a lot, but fell away from the practice. After getting really winded on some outings with the family, I’ve realized I need to get back into walking.

I like your comparison of running to life and your encouragements. It truly is a long haul, and we never know what a day will bring forth. But “as thy day, thy strength will be in measure,” the old hymn says.

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Lois Flowers April 1, 2023 - 10:33 am

Ugh, Barbara … I feel your pain from that college class. It’s so easy to fall away from habits like exercise, isn’t it? It seems climbing a huge wall to start back up again. I love the hymn lyric you shared … God is faithful to give us just enough strength for each day, isn’t He?

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Lux March 29, 2023 - 3:17 am

I will run the race! 🙂 Yes, sometimes it gets tough that I find myself not wanting to get up after tumbling down but I will continue. Thank you for this beautiful reminder and inspiration. You are truly admirable,

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Lois Flowers April 1, 2023 - 10:28 am

You are so sweet, Lux. Thank you for these encouraging words. Here’s to getting back up, again and again. And to running like the wind. Or at least like a soft breeze. 🙂

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Trudy March 28, 2023 - 4:00 pm

I hope you soon get your full strength and endurance back, Lois. Thank you for the encouragements for this marathon life. I especially struggle with the temptation to compare. And I can easily forget that “Growth measured in miniscule increments is still growth.” Love and blessings to you!

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Lois Flowers April 1, 2023 - 10:26 am

Thank you so much, Trudy. I’ve been thinking about you lately … how is life in South Dakota? I hope you have a wonderful week leading up to Easter. Love and hugs!

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Ashley Rowland | HISsparrowBlog March 28, 2023 - 9:49 am

Running over two miles at a time is wonderful. Don’t shortchange yourself. Besides, that’s probably about perfect. You’re getting the benefit of exercise at that distance. When you run too much, you’re not getting any more benefit from the exercise and you end up just damaging your joints. I’m so glad you’re recovering from your bout with Covid. It can be difficult to take it slowly. Wonderful post, Lois.

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Lois Flowers April 1, 2023 - 10:24 am

Aw, Ashley … you have the gift of encouragement, my friend. Thank you for these kind words.

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