Inside: We’re all works in progress. But if we want to have a sweet influence in a troubled world, here’s one way to start. ~
I started blogging in the fall of 2014. The following January, I chose a word of the year for the first time.
The word was fruit, and it came with a clear assignment—to pray for the fruit of the Spirit to grow in my life and in the lives of my immediate family members every day.
A Decade’s Worth of Prayer
Subsequent years brought new words (satisfied, fierce, bold, humble, full, strength, dawn, remember, now and notice). Many of these have had a powerful impact on my life. Through it all, though, I never stopped praying for the fruit. Which means that, as of last January, I’ve been doing this regularly for 10 years.
My prayer has changed a bit over time. Past iterations of my request for love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness and self control were perhaps a bit more eloquent than the words I tap out in my morning prayers now.
I’ve also added humility to the conversation in recent years. Not because I think the original collection of fruit is lacking, but because it seemed like a convenient place to insert a petition for this much-needed trait.
Any Difference?
The obvious question to ask about this practice is this: Has it made a difference?
In my own life, I would say yes, though the fact that I haven’t stopped praying for the fruit is a good indication that this is a lifelong process. I may look back and see a bit of growth, then I’m presented with a situation that shows me I still have much room for improvement.
Such was the case this year with patience. Before my accident last March, I would have said I was a pretty patient person. But my ongoing recovery process has provided ample opportunities to see that waiting is hard for me and I’m often lacking in endurance.
Works in Progress
The good news—for me and for you too—is that we are all works in progress. As Eugene Peterson noted in the title of his wonderful book, life is indeed “a long obedience in the same direction.”
We don’t have to grow weary in doing good. Instead, we can trust that God who began a good work in us will continue it until it is completed (Gal. 6:9, Phil. 1:6).
I don’t make it a habit of dispensing devotional advice. But if I had one suggestion for busy moms, young adults, empty nesters, retirees and everyone in between, it would be this. Starting today, pray regularly for each element of the fruit of the Spirit to grow in your life.
Spiritual Exercise
It might seem rote, but think of it as spiritual exercise. If you walk, run or do the same workout at the gym every day, you don’t criticize yourself for what you are doing to get stronger, do you? It’s the same with praying for the fruit.
The changes may be a long time coming, and they might be subtle. But when you notice one, it might be like the difference between a tomato you buy in the winter at the grocery store and one your neighbor grows in her garden and shares with you.
The winter tomato pales in comparison to the home-grown fruit. And the love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness and self-control God will produce in your heart as a result of your prayers will be far deeper and richer than what was there before.
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I’ve written about praying for the fruit of the Spirit in other blog posts over the years. If you’d like to read more, here they are:
• One Word 2015: Results or Not, Prayers Continue
• The Prayer that is Changing Me
• 2 Simple Habits that Make All the Difference
• One Way to Bring Peace to Our Troubled World
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♥ Lois
Starting today, pray regularly for each element of the fruit of the Spirit to grow in your life. Share on X The fact that I haven’t stopped praying for the fruit of the Spirit after 10 years is a good indication that this is a lifelong process. Share on XP.S. I’m linking up this week with #tellhisstory, InstaEncouragements, Let’s Have Coffee and Grace & Truth.
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Growing in the fruits of the Spirit are definitely “a long obedience in the same direction,” Lois.
Lisa, I don’t know about you, but sometimes I feel like it’s two steps forward, three steps back. Which makes me thankful for God’s patience and mercy!
This is a beautiful post, Lois. May we never grow weary of seeking growth in these powerful ways of being among each other. We never know when one of these fruits will be tested but by growing them all along, we’re more prepared when that time does come. I’m so glad you added this to our One Word linkup! Hope you’re continuing to recover well, friend.
Thanks so much, Lisa. I love how you put this: “We never know when one of these fruits will be tested but by growing them all along, we’re more prepared when that time does come.” So true.
Such wonderful & fruitful advice! 😊
Visiting from Lisa’s WOTY linky today where we’re sitting at the table together.
Blessings, Jennifer
Thanks, Jennifer! 🙂
“think of it as spiritual exercise. If you walk, run or do the same workout at the gym every day, you don’t criticize yourself for what you are doing to get stronger, do you? It’s the same with praying for the fruit.” -SO helpful. Thank you, friend, for this encouragement to pray for the fruit!
I’m glad it was helpful for you, Bethany. Praying for you today, dear friend.
I try to remember to pray for God to fill me with His Holy Spirit each morning, and, in an effort to not rush by the request, I name the fruit of the Spirit. I agree it’s a lifelong request.
Barbara, that’s a wonderful way to “not rush by the request,” as you say. I think that the more these traits are ingrained in our hearts and minds, the more they impact our words and actions.
Each day I am reminded of a shortage of at least one fruit. I am so grateful for the patience and grace of God as He continues to work and grow me throughout the course of my life! It truly is a lifelong process!
It’s so encouraging to hear that this process is ongoing for you too, Joanne. As long as we’re breathing, we have opportunities to grow, don’t we? Hugs, friend.
I’ve always called the Word of the year a class God enrolls me in – and he takes me for a deep dive, even so far as to helping me create muscle memory. Fruit is such a good word to walk with for 10 years. I did prayer with God for 4-5 years – because, like fruit, there’s so much more to learn than we realize. His deep is beyond me!
I have had a similar experience with my words of the year, Maryleigh. And I agree: God’s “deep is beyond me” too!
I can do better praying for the fruit of the Spirit. It has not been a practice of mine, although I do refer to it in my writing and speaking! Thank you for the nudge to grow fresh and vibrant fruit through our prayer life.
You’re welcome, Lynn. I just read a post by another blogger friend this week that is that has inspired me to pray a certain way. I’m so thankful we can encourage each other in this way. ♥️
So true that it’s a lifelong process, Lois. I love your comparison of store-bought vs garden fresh. We need constant renewal from the Spirit for true and fresh fruit, don’t we? Thank you for this inspiring reflection! Love, hugs, and blessings to you!
Amen about that constant renewal, Trudy. It’s not something we can conjure up on our own, is it? Thanks for your kind words, friend. Many blessings to you this week!
I try to ask the Holy Spirit to fill me each day and bear His fruit through me.
Debbie, that sounds like a prayer request He would be pleased to answer. 🙏♥️
With the threat of frost hanging over us, I’m paying attention to the fruit of my tomato plants right now. And if there’s a pale, store-bought quality fruit in my life, it’s patience. God is gracious!
Yes, He is! ♥️