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    When Going through the Motions is the Best Way Forward

    by Lois Flowers December 5, 2023
    by Lois Flowers

    Inside: Even though we can’t spot measurable growth, we still might be making progress. Keep reading to discover when going through the motions isn’t just OK, it’s necessary. ~

    I feel like I’m just going through the motions. 

    Perhaps you’ve heard people say this about a relationship, their work or their spiritual lives. Perhaps you’ve even said it yourself.

    Chances are, it was presented as a negative. If you’re going through the motions, something is wrong, right?

    Not Necessarily

    There are scenarios when going through the motions, especially when it’s long-term and habitual, is not a healthy way of living. Like in a marriage, when husband and wife are like two ships passing in the night, day after day.

    But there are other circumstances when going through the motions isn’t just OK, it’s necessary. Take physical therapy, for example. It involves literally going through specific prescribed motions to heal from injury, strengthen muscles and relearn vital movements.

    Any kind of exercise involves repetitive motion, in fact. I think of this quite often when I’m running in the summer.

    Step by Step

    I don’t look forward to stepping out into the Kansas heat and humidity several mornings a week. As sweat pours down my face, I want to give up with every slogging step.

    But I force my legs to keep going through the motions. And before I know it, I’m back at home. I might hate it while I’m doing it, but it’s good for me, so I keep after it.

    We’d never criticize anyone else for going through the motions while exercising. So let’s not be too hard on ourselves when it feels like we’re doing the same in other parts of life.

    A Spiritual Lifeline

    Different seasons bring different feelings and challenges. Those of us who are naturally routine oriented often have to become more flexible so we can go with the flow when our plans are disrupted.

    Sometimes, though, going through the motions is the only source of stability we might have. Even when it comes to our spiritual lives.

    Prayer and Bible reading shouldn’t feel like drudgery all the time, but they do take effort and commitment. There’s a reason they’re called spiritual disciplines, not spiritual fun.

    A Holy Example

    Praying for the same needs and concerns day after day might get old to us, but if the words come from the heart, what’s the problem? When Jesus was teaching His disciples to pray, He didn’t say, “OK, guys, here’s a sample prayer but you have to change it up every week so it doesn’t get stale.”

    No, He said, “You should pray like this,” and proceeded to share what we know of as the Lord’s Prayer (see Matthew 6:9-13). We’d be hard pressed to find a collection of words that have been offered in prayer more than this model petition.

    The Jewish people repeated many prayers from the scriptures during various holidays, festivals and daily rituals. Repetition didn’t diminish their power or importance; it reinforced it.

    The Heart of the Matter

    What’s the difference between sincere repetition and going through the motions, spiritually speaking? Either is better than nothing, I think. But motivation is at the root.

    We live in an emotionally based world, but long-term relationships—including our relationship with Jesus—aren’t built on emotion. If you sincerely desire to spend time with God but believe those moments have become rote or stagnant, don’t lose heart.

    Even when we feel like we’re just going through the motions, we’re still moving. Even when we can’t spot measurable growth, we’re still making progress.

    The faith muscles we’re developing in these dry seasons will serve us well later—we can be sure of that. So let’s keep going—one step at a time, one day at a time, one prayer at a time.

    ♥ Lois

    We'd never criticize anyone else for going through the motions while exercising. So let’s not be too hard on ourselves when it feels like we’re doing the same in other parts of life. Share on X Even when we feel like we’re just going through the motions, we’re still moving. Even when we can’t spot measurable growth, we’re still making progress. Share on X

    P.S. I’m linking up this week with Inspire Me Monday, #tellhisstory, InstaEncouragements, Let’s Have Coffee and Grace & Truth.

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  • Offer Your Best and Let God Do the Rest

    by Lois Flowers November 28, 2023
    by Lois Flowers November 28, 2023 28 comments

    Inside: If your assignment feels impossible and success seems unlikely, do what you know to do and trust God with the outcome. ~ The message came in that quiet way that makes me sit up and pay attention. Put your offering on the altar. I’d been pondering the impossibility of a …

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  • How God Comforts and Provides as Seasons Change

    by Lois Flowers November 14, 2023
    by Lois Flowers November 14, 2023 18 comments

    Inside: What a bumper crop of hedge apples tells us about seasons of life, how death doesn’t get the final word, when closed doors help us walk by faith, and a powerful quote about contentment. ~ For the last several weeks, it’s been raining Osage oranges in my backyard. I …

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  • Do You Want God to Tell You What’s Next?

    by Lois Flowers November 7, 2023
    by Lois Flowers November 7, 2023 28 comments

    Inside: Listening when God says stop, examining our motives before we post and moving forward without a detailed plan. ~ Has God ever spoken to you directly? Not in an audible voice, but in a way that you knew it was Him? I can’t say with 100 percent certainty that …

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  • Drought, Divine Preparation and God’s Good Gifts

    by Lois Flowers October 31, 2023
    by Lois Flowers October 31, 2023 20 comments

    Inside: It might look like drought to us, but what if it’s also God’s way of helping us let go? Plus some link love to help celebrate a non-milestone birthday. ~ It’s so dry, even the weeds are dying. That was my first thought as I dragged the hose around …

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  • Share Four Somethings: October 2023

    by Lois Flowers October 24, 2023
    by Lois Flowers October 24, 2023 26 comments

    Inside:  A blog anniversary, a sad-but-hopeful book, what to remember when the answer is no, and what I did with my funeral dress. ~ In the blur that was September, I completely missed my blog anniversary. Nine years doesn’t come with all the bells and whistles of other milestone dates, …

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