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    1 Prayer that Helps Us Hold Our Plans Loosely

    by Lois Flowers February 14, 2023
    by Lois Flowers

    Inside: The spiritual anchor that helps us loosen our grip on our plans and release the details of our lives back into the hands of the only One who knows exactly what we need.

    Certain seasons of life bring a greater urgency to our prayers.

    When life hangs in the balance, chaos swirls, and we face more questions than answers.

    When we’re watching on the sidelines, quietly—perhaps desperately—hoping for God to intervene in a loved one’s life, praying that they will respond when He does.

    In the waiting room—when we have a dream that seems like it will never be fulfilled, and the fulfillment of it is largely out of our control.

    Spiritual Anchor

    It was during a season like that last one, when Randy and I were struggling with infertility, that I first learned to pray for God’s will to be done, not mine. It became a spiritual anchor, this phrase that Mitford author Jan Karon calls the “prayer that never fails.”

    I’ve come back to it over and over in the years since. It helps me to loosen my grip on my expectations and anxieties, to release the gritty details of my life back into the hands of the One who knows precisely what I need and has promised to fulfill His purposes for me (and you too).

    Your will be done.

    Quiet Before the Storm

    I’ve been praying for many things over the last several months. Overall, though, life has been pretty calm and uneventful.

    In other words, it’s been quite some time since I felt the urge to pray this particular prayer regularly and fervently.

    Then a quiet, peace-filled December was followed by a January that hurled various bits of unexpected at us. I don’t know about you, but even normal life transitions can throw me off, especially if they seemingly come out of nowhere and I don’t know how they’re going to end up.

    We’ve had a few of those going on, plus another more serious (though not life-threatening) issue to navigate.

    What Next?

    Then one day, I remembered the prayer that never fails. Not that I had forgotten it, as one forgets the name of an old acquaintance or what one had for Sunday dinner three months ago.

    As I said earlier, however, I hadn’t prayed it consistently for a while.

    May your will be done, not mine.

    Looking Back

    Deuteronomy 32:7 says, “Remember the days of old; consider the years long past. Ask your father, and he will tell you, your elders, and they will teach you.”

    I came across this verse after I chose remember to be my OneWord for 2023. As I think back on seasons of my life long past, a few things stand out. God’s faithfulness, for one, and also what happens in my mind and heart when I remember to pray “thy will be done.”

    I suppose it goes without saying, but I’ll tell you anyway. The phrase is back in my daily prayers again, calming my heart and helping me to deposit my cares directly into God’s hands, right where they belong.

    • • •

    Have you ever “remembered” something that helped you in years past just as you were wondering how to deal with a current situation? Is there a particular verse or phrase from scripture that centers your heart and helps you release your cares to Jesus in prayer? Please share in the comments …

    ♥ Lois

    Even normal life transitions can throw me off, especially if they seemingly come out of nowhere and I don’t know how they’re going to end up. Share on X 'Thy will be done' is back in my daily prayers again, calming my heart and helping me to deposit my cares directly into God’s hands, right where they belong. Share on X

    P.S. I’m linking up this week with #tellhisstory, InstaEncouragements, Recharge Wednesday, Let’s Have Coffee and Grace & Truth.

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  • Grief or Disappointment? Why it Helps to Know the Difference

    by Lois Flowers February 7, 2023
    by Lois Flowers February 7, 2023 26 comments

    Inside: There’s an important difference between grief and disappointment, and here’s why it matters. On Sunday, the Kansas City Chiefs take on the Philadelphia Eagles in the Super Bowl. The last time the Chiefs played in the NFL championship, the match didn’t go so well for our boys in red. That …

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  • Share Four Somethings: January 2023

    by Lois Flowers January 31, 2023
    by Lois Flowers January 31, 2023 34 comments

    Inside: The blessing of a snow day, encouraging quotes about waiting and prayer, a lesson I keep relearning and a favorite comfort food. Plus a biblical anchor for life’s emotional roller coasters. In some ways, January was great. In other ways, it was one long exhausting ride on the struggle …

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  • When Red Flags Wave, God is There to Help

    by Lois Flowers January 24, 2023
    by Lois Flowers January 24, 2023 20 comments

    Inside: We don’t know why Eve didn’t go straight to God for help when she was first tempted in the garden. But we do know He is ready and willing to rescue us in our times of testing and temptation. There are some details missing from the story of Adam …

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  • My One Word for 2023: It’s Time to Remember

    by Lois Flowers January 17, 2023
    by Lois Flowers January 17, 2023 29 comments

    Inside: My One Word for 2023 came to me much earlier than usual, and while I have a few thoughts about what it might mean, its true significance for the year ahead remains a mystery. During the Christmas season, the part of the nativity story where Mary “kept all these …

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  • How to Be More Gracious in 2023: 6 Practical Tips

    by Lois Flowers January 10, 2023
    by Lois Flowers January 10, 2023 28 comments

    Inside: A gentle response that could lower the temperature of contentious arguments, plus advice from my dad about how to become a more gracious person. I once had a difficult conversation with my dad. The details aren’t important; the point is that our disagreement was intense. My dad listened to …

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