Years ago, when part of my work involved writing book reviews, I read a business book called Now, Discover Your Strengths. Written by Gallup Organization researchers Don Clifton and Marcus Buckingham, this bestseller asserts that the most effective way to motivate people is to develop their strengths rather than correct their weaknesses.
I don’t remember much else about the book, but the title has been a guiding light over the years, particularly when it comes to my girls’ education. I’ve encouraged them in areas of struggle, of course, but I’ve tried to focus more on helping them grow in areas where they seem especially gifted or skilled.