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    If You’re Fighting the Fear of the Unknown

    by Lois Flowers February 18, 2020
    by Lois Flowers

    There are days when the prospect of what might be looms larger than what actually is.

    Days when you wish you could hit the fast forward button on your life and jump ahead just enough to see what’s coming (or what’s not coming, as the case may be).

    Maybe what you’re dreading isn’t that big of a deal in the grand scheme of life, or perhaps it’s truly monumental. Maybe your reaction is kinda illogical, or perhaps it’s totally understandable, given your current circumstances.

    Either way, you find yourself in the bathroom, head in your hands, asking God to lift the blues or give you a glimpse of—well, anything, really.

    You know about the birds of the sky and the lilies of the field—that God feeds and clothes them, and yet provides for you so much more. In fact, you can probably quote from memory the grand conclusion of this section of scripture: “Therefore, don’t worry about tomorrow because tomorrow will worry about itself.” (Matthew 6:34)

    You know these things—you really do believe them—but the fear of the unknown still throws you off. You keep thinking about what C.S. Lewis once wrote, that “we are not necessarily doubting that God will do the best for us; we are wondering how painful the best will turn out to be.”

    This resonates loudly even though, among the four people in your household, you are the one most likely to be voted an optimist. The one who always tries to get the others to look at the bright side, to find the silver lining, to look for the good in the bad.

    Honestly, you’ve seen it go either way—when God’s best is really wonderful, and when His best (at least the way it affects you) is just plain hard. Chances are, what you are fretting about today is neither—a mere blip, most likely—but it still looms large in your mind.

    And somehow, the enemy of your soul is aware of this and seems to be exploiting it a bit right now.

    But then, almost out of nowhere, a thought pokes its way through the heavy fog in your head.

    “Yet this I call to mind and therefore I have hope.” (Lamentations 3:21)

    Ah, there it is—straight from the pages of scripture—the breath of fresh air you’ve been longing for.

    Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail.

    They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness.

    I say to myself, “The Lord is my portion; therefore I will wait for him.”

    The Lord is good to those whose hope is in him, to the one who seeks him; it is good to wait quietly for the salvation of the Lord. (Lamentations 3:22-26)

    Maybe waiting’s not your strong suit. (It’s certainly not mine.)

    And yet, these familiar words are powerful. They’re healing, hope-filled.

    They remind us both that God’s love protects us, that He is faithful and good, and that His salvation will come when the time is right.

    ♥ Lois

    There it is—straight from the pages of scripture—the breath of fresh air you’ve been longing for. Share on X

    P.S. I’m linking up this week with Purposeful Faith, #TellHisStory, InstaEncouragements, Recharge Wednesday, Let’s Have Coffee and Grace & Truth.

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  • One Way to Navigate the Emotional Teen Years

    by Lois Flowers February 11, 2020
    by Lois Flowers February 11, 2020 30 comments

    I had breakfast with a good friend a couple of months ago. She’s my favorite kind of friend—one with whom you can jump right into talking about anything, no matter how long it’s been. We were discussing the emotional ups and downs that seem to be even more prevalent as …

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  • The Best Way to Give Anything

    by Lois Flowers February 4, 2020
    by Lois Flowers February 4, 2020 34 comments

    The verse popped up on an early morning phone notification during a week when I was really spinning my wheels. “If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you.” (James 1:5, NIV)

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  • Does Your Fresh Start Need a Restart?

    by Lois Flowers January 28, 2020
    by Lois Flowers January 28, 2020 30 comments

    I’m guessing you saw them all, same as me. The blog posts, tweets and Instagram captions about the New Year and new decade—the perfect time for a fresh start with all sorts of energizing goals and inspiring aspirations. I don’t usually pay much attention to the annual turn of the …

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  • My One Word for 2020

    by Lois Flowers January 14, 2020
    by Lois Flowers January 14, 2020 42 comments

    I love reading about the words that other people choose to guide them through each year. I also enjoy the process of choosing a word for myself (although it might be more accurate to say that, inevitably, the words choose me). For some reason, though, actually writing about my new …

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  • When Keeping Christmas is a Struggle

    by Lois Flowers December 17, 2019
    by Lois Flowers December 17, 2019 18 comments

    Last year, keeping Christmas saved me. I spent many December days running around like a chicken with my head cut off—to see my dad at the hospital, in rehab and then finally in long-term care with my mom; to his lawyer’s office, his banks, the investment broker’s office and my …

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