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What to Remember When God Feels Distant

by Lois Flowers September 20, 2022
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Inside: What the sunrise teaches us about God’s glory and presence, even during seasons when it’s hard to feel Him with us.

Clouds are what make the sunrise beautiful. They also help us realize our need for God.Last winter, when the sun rose later and I was able to get outside to run before the break of dawn, I noticed something interesting. Dawn comes every morning, but when the sky is clear, it’s not as spectacular. It’s the presence of clouds that make the sunrise brilliant.

This doesn’t happen when it’s completely overcast, of course. But when there are white or gray clouds spread across the sky, the sun’s early morning beams reflect off them, producing all the glorious colors that take our breath away while we’re driving to work or walking to school or running down the trail.

There’s a spiritual application here, I think. Without the clouds—the problems, cares and concerns of life—we would miss many opportunities to see God’s glory and provision displayed.

I’ve found it to be true; perhaps you have too. Often, it is in seasons of struggle and weariness that we find God’s peace to be most sustaining, His comfort most reassuring, His presence most stabilizing.

Maybe we have to come to the end of ourselves to realize He truly is the only Source of everything we need?

But what about the days when the sky is completely overcast? How do they fit into our spiritual metaphor?

Is it contradictory to suggest that tough seasons provide equal opportunities to feel closer to God than ever, and also further apart than ever? Perhaps, but it’s also true.

God sometimes seems distant when we’re going through a hard time. He doesn’t appear to be answering our prayers. We don’t notice evidence of His hand at work. He feels far away.

The thing about God, though, is that He doesn’t change with our circumstances. We might not feel Him, but that doesn’t mean He’s not there. It just means we don’t feel Him.

I’ve said it before, and I will say it again—to myself and anyone else who will listen. Like love, faith is a choice. It’s a choice to believe that God is who He says He is even if He feels distant or seems unconcerned.

The thing is, glorious sunrises don’t happen very often—at least not where I live. I don’t usually get out on the trail before the sun comes up during the summer, but I can think of only two times last winter when the sky was so amazing I had to stop running and take a picture.

The sun keeps rising, though. Day after day.

The older I get, the more I’m realizing that life is a journey. It’s a long walk home. It’s a long obedience in the same direction, as Eugene Peterson titled his wonderful book.

On rainy days, sunny days, days when we see evidence of God’s hand and days when all we can do is put one foot in front of another and know that tomorrow is a new day.

These are the lessons that the dawn is teaching me. They’re obvious, perhaps, but sometimes the things that are right in front of our nose—or above our heads, as the case may be—are the things we need reminded of the most.

“From the rising of the sun to the place where it sets, the name of the Lord is to be praised.” (Psalm 113:3)

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I’m going out of town next week so I’ll be taking a short blogging break. I’ll be back in early October with new posts, including a short series about my word of the year from 2021 that I’ve been thinking about writing for much longer than that.

♥ Lois

God doesn’t change with our circumstances. We might not feel Him, but that doesn’t mean He’s not there. It just means we don’t feel Him. #Godiswithus Share on X Like love, faith is a choice. It’s a choice to believe that God is who He says He is even if He feels distant or seems unconcerned. #Godiswithus Share on X

P.S. I’m linking up with OneWord2022, #tellhisstory, InstaEncouragements, Recharge Wednesday, Let’s Have Coffee and Grace & Truth.

Image by Cal Brown from Pixabay 

September 20, 2022 28 comments
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8 Encouraging Excerpts from 8 Years of Blogging

by Lois Flowers September 13, 2022
by Lois Flowers

Celebrating eight years of blogging with excerpts from posts about faith, fear, weariness and prayer.Eight years ago this week, I sent my first post out into the blogosphere. So much has happened—in my life, in our country, in the world—since then. It’s almost incomprehensible, if I try to think about it all.

A blogger friend recently celebrated her seventh anniversary by posting excerpts from her top seven posts, and I thought it might be interesting to do something similar.

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September 13, 2022 32 comments
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Will We Cry Tears of Joy in Heaven?

by Lois Flowers September 6, 2022
by Lois Flowers

When I think of seeing my dad in heaven, I imagine a joyful reunion with much laughter. I imagine he may have a new joke or two, or perhaps want to show me some really fascinating aspects of heaven that nobody would have ever thought of here.

Maybe we’d talk about football, or a few of the more bizarre events that happened on earth after he died in 2019.

When I think of seeing my mom in heaven for the first time, though, all I can imagine myself doing is crying. To see her whole, standing up straight and tall, completely free from all the fears and worries that hampered her on earth. To hug her, to tell her how much I love her, to thank her for not holding the self-centeredness and self-absorption of my earlier years against me.

It seems like all of that would trigger an onslaught of emotion that could only be expressed in tears. It’s the only possible reaction I can imagine.

But the Bible says there won’t be any tears in heaven, right? There it is, near the end of scripture: “He will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and there will no longer be any death, there will no longer be any mourning, or crying, or pain.” (Rev. 21:4, NASB)

Perhaps this has to do with tears of grief, pain and sadness. But what about tears of joy? Will our heavenly bodies not include the ability to be so happy we could cry, as the saying goes?

I kinda hope not. But let’s not take my word for it.

In his book Heaven, Randy Alcorn writes that Revelation 21:4 “primarily addresses not tears per se but the tears coming from injustice and sorrow.”

As a result, “We might shed tears of joy in Heaven,” he explains. “Can you imagine joy flooding your eyes as you meet Christ, for example, and as you’re reunited with loved ones? I can.”

We are designed by God to be emotional beings, Alcorn says, and while our feelings have been “bent by sin,” they will “forever be straightened again when God removes the Curse.”

In other words, we will be able to feel healthy emotions intensely and freely, in a way that reflects our creation in God’s image. Maybe we’ll cry actual tears, or perhaps our heavenly bodies will express emotion in a way we can’t even envision right now—a way that is different and infinitely better than what we experience here on earth.

The truth is, there are some things our human minds simply can’t know. As my dad once told me, we’re sort of like caterpillars contentedly munching away on tomato plants, with no possible way to imagine the transformation that’s about to happen to them.

“A caterpillar just can’t understand butterflies, even though it’s going to be one,” he explained. “The Bible says we don’t know what we will be like, but we will know what we will be when we see Him.”

In the meantime, we rest in knowing that “Eye has not seen, nor ear heard, nor have entered into the heart of man the things which God has prepared for those who love Him.” (I Cor. 2:9, NKJV)

And we look forward to reunions with loved ones who have gone before us that are joyous and beautiful, tears or not.

♥ Lois

This post is part of a collection called Help for Parent Loss. To read more, please click here.

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September 6, 2022 22 comments
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Share Four Somethings: August 2022

by Lois Flowers August 30, 2022
by Lois Flowers

Finding my fall rhythm after my girls go back to school is always a challenge. This year, it’s been especially tricky, though I can’t put my finger on exactly why.

I’m getting things done, but something is off inside. I can feel it acutely, but other than naming a few uncharacteristic (for me) symptoms, I can’t really describe it.

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August 30, 2022 24 comments
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How Friends Help in Every Parenting Season

by Lois Flowers August 23, 2022
by Lois Flowers

What advice would you have for your 20-years-younger self? What is one bit of encouragement you’d give a mom with small children?

Questions like these came to mind as I sat on the floor in my basement family room, surrounded by a pile of baby outfits. Each dress, sweater and sleeper held sweet memories of my girls wearing them and the friends who gave them to us.

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August 23, 2022 22 comments
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Let’s Leave All the Judging to God

by Lois Flowers August 16, 2022
by Lois Flowers

One of the disconcerting things about our current cultural moment is that people seem to have gotten very good at reading other people’s minds and determining their motivations.

Among other things, this is a driving force behind cancel culture, I think.

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August 16, 2022 20 comments
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